Olivia Wilde Responds Angrily To Harry Styles Fans Who Age Shame Her: “I Reject Your Projections!” In a recent interview with Elle, Olivia Wilde opened up about her frustrations with people criticizing her for dating Harry Styles who is ten years her junior. “It’s so sad to me to look at that and realize people have such small expectations for their own lives and they are projecting those expectations onto me. And I reject your projections,” said Olivia. Wilde also questioned women’s critical comments about her relationship saying, ‘Do you plan on not getting older? Or if you already are older, do you feel that you don’t deserve the same opportunities in life?’” What is the big problem with older people dating younger people?